Featured Article by Guest Writer, Wendy Minks
Certified SimplyHealed Practitioner
You can read more of her inspired writings here:
www.WendyMinks.BlogSpot.com
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Have
you ever stood at the
beach and let the waves rush over you? Not ready to
jump right in to all the chaos, you timidly walk down to where water meets sand
and inch your way in. As you stand there enjoying the cool flood over your hot
feet, WHAM! a huge wave comes and knocks you on your butt. As you
try to stand, the sand under you rushes away, pulled back into the water with
the receding wave, you lose your footing, and down you go again. As you
struggle, another wave comes along, and you are rolled. That second wave
doesn't need to be very big to knock you over, since you haven't fully
recovered from the first one. You are only sort of standing, and very
unsteady. As wave after wave continues to hit, you tumble, and roll,
struggle, and gasp. Eventually, you back up, and retreat to higher
ground, or dive on in and try to get all the sand out of your pants.
Inching towards a big change in life can be frightening. We approach with
caution, and inch our way in. Standing there, hesitating, we can get hit
with a big wave, a devastating set back, like a major illness, job loss, death
of a loved one, etc. Then when we are down, and still struggling to
stand, even the smallest waves can knock us back down, and keep us down,
tumbling us over and over, as we struggle to breath and stand. Sometimes
it seems like those waves keep on coming, and that we are going to drown, that
the ocean will win, and drag us out to sea. We might even need a friend
to rescue us and pull us one way or another, out of the line of fire.
The best way to go for a swim in the ocean, is to run and dive right on
in. Dive over the wave, into the wave, or under it. When you are
swimming, you cannot be knocked down. The wave loses it's power when you
stop resisting, and go with the flow. What is a powerful force at the
shore, capable of knocking you flat, is a gentle rocking motion when you are
bobbing along in the middle of it. If you are swimming under the surface,
it feels like nothing at all. While standing, or treading water, if a
large wave approaches, and you aren't paying attention, you can still get
walloped good. A face full of salt water that leaves you sputtering, but
still upright. If you see it coming, all it takes is a little hop just at
the right moment, and you float along, with your head safely above the surface.
Resisting is what causes all the trouble.
In life, it's just the same. It's the resistance to life's changes,and
challenges that bring all the destruction and pain. When we fight against
the inevitable, when we hesitate to take the next step, that's when life really
knocks us down. We have to pay attention, see what is coming our way, and
then jump on board, and ride the wave. When we resist, we go under, we sputter,
and gasp. Life is never going to be like a reflection pool - still and
perfectly clear. It keeps moving, and changing. Every day we have
new things come our way. Life changes. If we don't figure out how
to adapt and change with it, we suffer, and life is harder than it needs to be.
Learning to anticipate the waves, and jump into them, rather than resist, helps
smooth out the ride. If you see a future challenge coming, do what you
can to prepare for it, and when it hits - jump up to greet it, rather then try
to out run it, you will float along with only a minor disruption. You
can't out run, or out swim, the waves of change that life brings. Babies
grow up, kids get married, people get sick, we have to move, jobs are lost,
cars break down, we grow old, and everyone of us will eventually die. You
can't avoid these normal life events. You can prepare, you can be
watchful, and you can embrace each new wave as it comes your way. You can
jump in and live life, rather than stand on the shore and let the waves beat
you down. You must keep moving, if you wish to have any peace.
There is no such thing as standing still.
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